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My Life – Unscripted bio picture

My Story...

This is my life story - unscripted. I wanted to have a place that I can share my life events with, and so this blog was created. Above is my family (for now) starting at the far left you will find my oldest step-son Zach, my loving husband Jake, my youngest step-son Alex, and me - Erica Joyce. I grew up next door to my husband 14 years ago and now I am known as "the girl next door". I have known my step-sons since they were born. Jake and I share a very unique story and can't wait for the day to tell our grandchildren. November 2006 Jake and I were pronounced "Husband and Wife", and ever since that day we knew we wanted 1 more child. We have not had the fairy tail story of getting pregnant, and have had many obstacles to overcome.

June 2008 we began IVF, and prayed that God would bless us with 1 healthy baby. We went in for our first check-up and heard the news.. "Congratulations you are pregnant with triplets!!" We were a little nervous but got used to the idea quickly and knew that God blessed us with 3 more children. In our 16th week of pregnancy we experienced some difficulties and I was admitted to the hospital on bed rest. On October 15, 2008 our first Angel was born and called to heaven at 18 1/2 weeks, we named him Angel A Jaggears. On November 7, 2008 our other 2 Angels were born at 21 1/2 weeks, and joined their brother in heaven. We named them Angel B Jaggears and Angel C Jaggears. We would have never thought we would have gone through something like this, but we are not ones to chose our path, it has already been chosen for us. We find comfort in knowing that our 3 little boys are watching over us in heaven and we will see them again someday. This blog has been a blessing and I have become a stronger woman by all the people that have been there through these trying times and have left uplifting comments and prayers. My journey has given me a different perspective on life and made me realize to appreciate and live life one day at a time.

This blog is dedicated to my husband Jake whom without I would not be able to be the parent that I am, Zach and Alex who have taken me in as their Mom, and given me endless love, my family (all of them) who have supported me throughout life, all my prayer warriors and blog stalkers, our Heavenly Father, and of course my triplet Angels - you were taken from us too soon, but you are in a better place and Mommy and Daddy will be with you again someday. Share with me my journey of life - one day at a time…

"For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, Plans to prosper you and not to harm you, Plans to give you Hope and a Future" Jeremiah 29:11

March of Dimes 2010 & The Nursery…

***March for Babies 2010***

I can not believe the time has come again!! The March of Dimes, March for Babies walk 2010 is right around the corner!! We were so blessed last year to have about 50 people join Team Angel Jaggears and help to honor our 3 little Angels. Not only did we have so many people show their support by walking with us and wearing our t-shirt, but we also raised $5700.00 and placed 3rd in all of Tarrant County. That was such a blessing to know so many people support this great organization. This past summer I was invited to an awards luncheon and presented this award,

It was truly amazing and I would not have been able to do it without all of your help. Jake and I made a promise to ourselves and our Angels that we will continue to walk and raise money in their honor as long as we are able to, and we hope we when we are not around to do it that Zach, Alex and Baby J will continue this for us.

I know this may seem premature to start collecting money now, but as you all know we are expecting Baby J to arrive into this world on March 2nd, and I wanted to get this started before things get even crazier in the Jaggears’ household. As I lay here on bed rest (with the risk of premature labor) I have a little extra time on my hands!!! I know the economy is tough this year and we have been affected by it to, but we hope that you can even give a $25.00 donation. If you can give the same amount as last year that would be AWESOME!!! Also we hope that you all come out and walk with us, you do NOT have to raise money on your own to walk with us, you can just donate to Team Angel Jaggears and then shoot me an email to let me know you will be walking. We did have some walkers that raised money last year and that was  HUGE contributing factor to Team Angel Jaggears, so please try to sign up and raise some money yourself!!  As soon as I have the t-shirt designed I will send out an email with the pricing, the design and an order form. If you would rather write a check than pay online you can make the check payable to March of Dimes, and in the memo write Team Angel Jaggears. Mail that check to me and I will turn them in as I get them, just email me and I will send you my mailing address. erica.jaggears@sbcglobal.net

So this year the walk is Saturday, April 17th, in Ft. Worth. It will be the same walk for those of you that participated last year.  We are planning on doing t-shirts again this year, I am having them designed now and we will provide lunch again for all that can come out.  You can keep up with Baby J and March of Dimes updates here or on Facebook. Please join us to be a part of this great day and help fight for those premature babies that can not do it alone. The mission of March of Dimes is to improve the health of babies by preventing birth defects, premature birth and infant mortality.

Email me or call me if you have any questions! We look forward to making this year another success and we need your help to get there!

Click here to join our team, or to donate for March for Babies

March of Dimes 2009 from Erica Joyce Photography on Vimeo.

Honoring:

“AJ” October 15, 2008 born at 18.5 weeks
Angel B. Jaggears November 7, 2008 born at 21.5 weeks
Angel C. Jaggears November 7, 2008 born at 21.5 weeks

Here are some pictures from March for Babies 2009…

***The Nursery***

OK so everyone keeps wanting to see some updates of the nursery! We are not finished but we have a big start. Jake, Zach and Alex helped to get all the furniture together this past weekend, I know it was a chore but I am so thankful I have them here to do these things. We are still working on getting our bedding made, I am finishing the canvases I am making, still need the shelf put up on the wall, a valance, and need to shop for a round mirror, an end table, lamp, baskets, etc. It is a little harder to do when you do not know the sex of the baby! Of course we will paint the top wall pink or orange and add the babie names in wooden letters once we figure out boy or girl. So it is not completed but here are a few more images to heold youover until we make more changes to the room…

See even Jacob can say he helped paint! This is him cleaning up the edges with an artist paint brush.

***Baby J Update***

So as of today we are 35.5 weeks! I went to see Dr. White today and he thinks this baby is 7.5 lbs!! WHOA!! I still have 4 more weeks! He seems to think we will only deliver a 8-8.5 lb baby but I am thinking more like 9.5-10!! I have already had the discussion that I will not even attempt to push a 10 lb baby, and he told me anything bigger than 9 lb, I can chose to have a c-section if I would like to. So that was a little relief to know I have the option. We are still looking good though, my cerclage will come out Tuesday February 16th and then we are scheduling my induction March 2nd. I am scheduling an induction so I can have Dr. White deliver our baby. It is nice to know a date has been set and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. I have been pretty nervous these past few weeks as I guess any new Mom would be, it is just the fear of the unknown! I am so excited to meet this little (or BIG) one!! Here is Baby J last week at 34.5 weeks. He/She was sleeping..

We also registered at Babies R Us last week so we can mark that off the list. Even though we are not having any showers until after the baby gets here I wanted to knock this part out! We did 2 separate registries and as soon as we know the gender we will delete the one we don’t need. So Jake got the Girl gun and I had the Boy gun. He had a lot of fun registering for all pink things that says Daddy loves me!!! As soon as we got to the clothes department he took off and left me in the middle of the isle in my wheelchair. I had to move myself around, I felt like Fred Flinstone!! We had a great time though! Jake also registered for his own diaper bag (diaper satchel) , since he said he will not carry one that looks like this…

Here is “Dad’s diaper bag”…

Brandi - Love the nursery!! Adorable but bold. I can't believe it's already so close. Can't wait to see the little one!

Janet - The nursery looks amazing! Thanks for sharing the pics and the Baby J update. Nice "Diaper Satchel" Jake.

Aunt Fawn - You look amazing, everything looks great, I truly cannot not wait to hold and kiss your new little (or BIG) angel!!! Love you all!!!

Ann Pavliska - Looks like everything is going well with all of you. I don't blame Jake for picking out his own diaper satchel. You go, Jake! I will be sending you a check for the March of Dimes walk in memory of those sweet boys that the Lord called home early. Since I will be doing the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer on April the 10th, I don't think I can make it to Fort Worth for your walk but don't count me out yet. I'll let you know when the date gets closer, and also after I have talked to Kelli to see what she has planned that weekend. Good luck, and I will be waiting for this delivery...Ann

34 weeks…

Week 34 has arrived and all is well! At 34 weeks your baby has a 99% chance or survival and would need minimal time in the NICU (of course if everything is OK). I went to see Dr. White last week and he said that everything is on track and perfect. He said he could tell that the baby has dropped a little and this week I will go get an ultrasound to see the positioning of the baby. I have 2 more weeks of Procardia and then in 3 weeks my cerclage will be removed. I can’t believe we are in the final countdown!!! It all seems to good to be true. I have waited for this moment for a LONG time, and now that it is almost here I am overwhelmed with emotions. I know what it is like to go through labor and contractions, but I don’t know what it is like to hear your child cry for the first time, or see it’s eyes open. I keep looking around the house wondering what am I going to do when I bring this baby home and it is all real!!! Sure I have been getting excited as packages arrive at my door, our furniture, our stroller, our car seat – but I has all those things last time too.  As we approach the last 5 weeks I am starting to get very anxious and excited!! I am dying to know BOY or GIRL?!?!?!? I wonder who he/she will look like?? I want to kiss those chubby cheeks for hours!!!

Well I will post more nursery pics as it comes along, the only change so far has been the new carpet. Ashley and I are working on the painting touch ups before we can hang curtains or put together furniture. So as we get further along I promise to post more pictures!!!

On our way back from my doctor appointment last week, we stopped at the park and Jake took some belly pics since I have not had them in a while. We will go register for baby stuff on Thursday and I will get pushed around in the wheelchair! It ought to be interesting. We will have a boy and a girl registry and as soon as we know what we are having we will delete the one we don’t need. Also we will be walking again as Team Angel Jaggears this year for the March of Dimes and I will post a link in the next few weeks on how you can help donate and come walk with us. We had a great time last year and look forward to it again!!

Jenni - So exciting! Thank you for the update. I found you through Danielle Mueller and have been following along as you await your blessing. God Bless and keep you!

Jenni - oh! and btw! I forgot to tell you how beautiful these pictures are also- just goregous! :)

Katie - It was great to see your bump in real life! So happy for you and Jake and looking forward to the birth announcement before we know it!!

Ann Pavliska - Can't Wait!!!! You and Jake deserve this child. Keep me posted.

Tammy Gregg - Erica, I am one of the nurses that took care of you (while you were on the post partum side) last time. I have thought of you often but have not checked your blog, what a wonderful surprise to see you will soon have a beautiful baby. I look forward to seeing you and Jake in a few weeks, I will be looking for your name on the pt sheet. You look beautiful in the pics. Tammy Gregg

32 weeks and the start of the Nursery…

Well today I am 32 weeks 5 days and all is well! I went to the doctor today and saw Baby J and he/she is perfect! Weighing in at a whopping 4.9 lbs! My cervix is nice and long and the baby has plenty of fluid, so bed rest is doing it’s job. I have been feeling good, but I get tired very fast and can not be up much more than an hour. It has been very different being on bed rest at home vs. the hospital, it is nice to be able to see your family, sleep in your own bed and the best of all is my DVR! I did not have those amenities at Hotel Baylor! So I re-tested today to see if I am still at risk for pre-term labor and should know the results tomorrow. Even if I am negative Dr. White said I am on bed rest for the remainder of my pregnancy. As much as I want to try to go back to work I can not imagine sitting in a chair for 8 hours and driving 1 hour each way. I don’t know if my body can handle it right now, especially with as big as I am ad how uncomfortable I get just sitting up. We will just see how it all goes and take one day at a time. So all in all baby is doing great, and I am hanging in there. I have enjoyed all my visitors and food!!! I never turn down anything with chocolate in it!!!

Thanks again to my husband Jacob who has been so helpful around the house and helping out more than his share, and running our business alone. You are doing a great job babe,I love you!!!

Well we have begun the nursery (and when I say “we” I mean Ashley)! She has been a great friend and has stepped up to make my dream a reality. I feel so bad laying in my bed while I know she is in the nursery painting. So my argyle wall is now almost complete, all we have left is the touch up paint on the edges and then once the baby is here and we know boy or girl we will paint he top of the wall either pink or orange. I have gotten a lot of comments on Facebook everyone thinks the nursery is blue at that I am having a boy, but the nursery is aqua!! Of course there is a chance we are having a boy, but that is not why it looks blue!! Hopefully this weekend the painting will be done and Jacob can start assembling the crib and changing table!! So exciting. Today we had all new carpet installed downstairs including the nursery so it looks awesome!!! Here are some pictures of our progress, I will post more as we get more done!!!

This is what the wall started as, this was from my old nursery….

Mom - Blessings for Erica and the baby staying healthy! Way to go Ashley -the room looks great! Love to Jacob and the boys for taking over Erica's share of the family workload.

Janet - The nursery is gorgeous. Glad all is well.

Katie Sanborn - Erica, Oddly I ran across your site while searching for something completely unrelated!! However, from reading your blog I was so touched by all that you have gone through! I too, did in-vitro several times to have our three little girls, so I know exactly some of the emotions that you are your husband are going through. I simply wanted to write and encourage you that some stranger thousands of miles away is praying for a non-eventful and perfect duration of your pregnancy and a healthy little baby. Congratulations... Katie Sanborn

Ann Pavliska - The nursery looks awesome. What a great color!!! I guess I had better get to work on my gift, otherwise it will not be finished by the time I get up there to see you after little one is born. Of course that will depend on when Kelli and Jeff will be home and let me come visit. Until then, take care and see you soon. Ann

Bedrest Day 1….

Monday I went to see Dr. White for my routine 2 week appointment. Dr. White was in surgery so I saw the nurse instead and was telling her about my Braxton Hicks contractions that I have been having. She said that given my history of pre-term labor she wanted to go ahead and take a test to see if I was at risk for pre-term labor. She said it was probably over the top and not a necessary test, but it was better to be safe. So I thought nothing of it and was told I would get a phone call with the results.  Then yesterday morning at 8:30 AM I got a phone call that the test results were in and they were positive and that I was going to be put on bed rest at home. Dr. White wanted to see me in his office at 10:15 to do an ultrasound and then talk about our game plan. WOW what a way to start my day!! My head was spinning and I was suddenly stressed out. I had 1 hour to wrap up everything at work, not knowing if I was coming back in 1 week, or after the baby is born. I don’t know what was worse having that hour to wrap up, or like last time when I left at lunch to go to the doctor and came back 3 months later!!!

When I got to the doctor’s office we first had our ultrasound. We measured and weighed the baby, and what to you know our butterball is now 4.2 lbs!! The baby is weighing 1.5 weeks ahead of gestational age. Don’t let this fool you though just because the baby is weighing ahead does not mean that it is 1.5 more weeks developed, just bigger in size. Check out the cheeks on this baby!! I can not wait to kiss them!!! My cervix is good, baby has plenty of fluid and all is well! So once we saw Dr. White he told us that the test they gave me was just to see if I was at risk for pre-term labor and given my history and the positive test result he wanted to be extra cautious so bed rest it is. He said this test is more accurate if it is negative because then you know you are not at risk for pre-term, but with a positive test it is very unclear of when I will have pre-term labor, IF I even have pre-term labor. So my bed rest is strictly a preventative of pre-term labor. I am NOT in labor!! I am on bed rest at home and am able to get up and shower, sit at the dinner table, drive myself to the doctor and go up a flight of stairs one time a day (if needed). If my cervix starts shortening then I will be on strict bed rest with only bathroom privileges. This is very different than last time being in the hospital. So I will do what I can and keep off my feet to prevent any early labor. I will go to Dr. White weekly and in 2 weeks take another test and hope for negative results. If the test comes back negative I might be able to go back to work for a few weeks. I am more stressed about work than anything else right now!! I began my FMLA yesterday and only get 12 weeks off, if I stay on bed rest for 9 more weeks, that only leaves me with 3 weeks for the baby. If I can go back to work for a few more weeks then I can add those weeks back into my FMLA, since you only get 12 weeks in a calender year. So although the health of myself and the baby are MOST important it still stresses me out to think that I am losing 2 months of pay when I was not prepared for that.  So once again Jake and I are living our lives one day at a time and trusting in Him to get us through these obstacles. I really am OK, and have a great attitude. I will do whatever it takes for this miracle baby!

Check out these great pics of the baby, if you step back you can see them clearer. It is the baby’s face and check out those cheeks!!

I hope everyone has a Happy New Year!! I will be laying in bed and will probably not make it to see the ball drop. Thank you already to all my friends and family that have already stepped up to help me and my family out and for all the prayers you are already sending our way. You guys know where I am, so anytime you want to drop by I love visitors, and chocolate chip cookies!!!

Katie - What beautiful chubby cheeks!! So hard not to be a little stressed but it will all work out - hold onto that super faith of yours :o)

Mom - Love those cheeks! Can't wait to hold this miracle grandbaby!

Annie - I just came across your blog through your photography site (as a fellow photographer) and I'm blown away by what a wonderfully strong woman you are. As I was reading your story, I noticed the quote from Jeremiah 29 - the same one that I feature on my personal blog (annievarland.com) that I'm keeping as I battle cancer. There really is so much hope and comfort in those words. = ) Anyway, you and Jake sound like such a great couple and I hope everything goes smoothly for you and your little one from here on out!

Ann Pavliska - Great pictures of the little one..I also love the cheeks, since my cheeks are very round and so are my grandson, Brody's..I am probably just partial...Sorry that you are on bed rest now, but with God's help, that may just be a small set back. Remember to trust in the Lord because He has already worked so many miracles in your life, that I know He won't let you down now. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Maybe if I get up to see Kelli, we can manage to come by and I promise to bring Chocolate Chip Cookies.

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Merry Christmas…

Wanted to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! It is so hard to believe that it is about to be 2010!! What a year 2009 was for us. This will be our last Christmas as a family of “4″ and next year it will be all “5″ of us! I can’t wait! Christmas Day I will be 30 weeks, and am looking forward to my 30’s!

Hope everyone remembers the reason for the season and  recognize all the blessings in your life.

tomi - cute cute picture! can't wait to see number 5 next year!!!